Monday, October 02, 2006

You can Never Change His Style, Just Like You Can Never Change Him?



It is quite the revelation. A girl can never change a man, just like she can never change his style….

It may mean that I can possibly never change my boyfriend’s obsession with schedule and timeliness. And it can also mean that I’ll never get him to wear those Matrix-like long coats that I really like. Most importantly, it means that I’ll never get to change his warped sense of logic about expediency and horrors of all horrors, his views on our relationship.

But I live in the hope that maybe, with the right mindset and the appropriate method, I’ll be able to imperceptibly nudge him towards that certain desired direction. This is definitely not classified as attempting to change your man. Think of it more as a form of slight, just a slight, behavior modification…


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